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kellyjean
(wild eyed peoploid)
01/29/02 06:13 PM
An Ode To Love (kept)  

....Nyah...(00:40 AM) :
would that be nice? ;)
well, use your imagination
what would you do? ;)
Unbutton your shirt :-O
...Nyah...(00:41 AM) :
why not? ;)
And you would unbutton mine?
...Nyah...(00:42 AM) :
straight away when we'd be alone ;) and kiss your chest ;)))))
I'd like that very much ;)
...Nyah...(00:43 AM) :
of course you would
and then i'd hold you so close that it'd seem we had the one heart beating for both :)
You make me melt!
I just wanna hold you right now RIGGGHT NOW

...Nyah...(00:44 AM) :
and then i'd ask you to close your eyes and then....
then i'd run my hand again down your chest and then the back....
kiss your neck and then your lips
veeeeeeeeeeery gently :))))))
you'd hardly be able to breathe :) it's tge power of love
Oh angel :))))
I can hardly breathe now

...Nyah...(00:46 AM) :
i can't imagine what i'd be saying but i can imagine thousand of things i'd want to be doing with you ;)
they don't even have to be naughty
they all are just beautiful and show how much i love you
I'd be kissing your ears, whispering into them that I adore you, and will be beside forever
...Nyah...(00:47 AM) :
i'd use my tongue in kissing your ears ;))))
and i'd make you go crazy and squeeze me so so tight that i wouldn't be able to breathe...
Stroking your hair, then down to stroking your back
I'm melting lol
I'm nearly fainting here at the keyboard, how do you do this to me?

...Nyah...(00:49 AM) :
and then my hair would fall on your shoulders and you'd be able to se my eyes so close....
so close...closed and yearning for your kiss.....
you'd kiss my neck and stroke me legs
my hand would be massaging your shoulders and at the same time i'd be kissing you again and again....
the moonlight would be lightning our faces......
i'd see the love in you eyes and would want to give you whole myself.....
You'd feel my tongue on your neck, you'd feel my teeth and lips as you blush and I kiss and kiss your neck....I'd turn your face to me and kiss you on the lips with passion
...Nyah...(00:51 AM) :
but with that we'll have to wait not to spoil anything
That was incredibly beautiful angel
...Nyah...(00:52 AM) :
then you'd be gently biting my lip....
making me go wild.......
making me run my hands through your hair again and again....
making this night the best nigh t ever
then i'd lie on the bed.....so much emotions that it'd be hard to breathe for us
new feeling would be around, just like the spirit of love, the angel would be flying beside us
i'd close my eyes, having no strength to tell you even ILY but you anyway know i do
then you'd lie next to me and hold me veeeeeery tight again....
and we'd both fall asleep kissing and feeling each other
when tthe sun comes up and the bird sings out the new song which she made up just in the morning we'd be waking up and
meeting the day together :)) for the first time together
as if in a fairy tale
asking ourselves if it was real or a dream which an evil witch
made up
but no - IT'S LOVE
LOVE IS IN THE AIR
and nothing will ever stop it
not a damn existing thing will make us forget about each other
cause this is God who created us to show the world what love is
and how amazing it is
you just have to believe, have to wait till you are given the chance to be in love
REALLy in love
this amazing feeling would never leave us alone not just for the entire day
but for our whole lives
we'd be gazing in our eyes all the time like there's nothing more around and ppl would thik we're crazy
but we wouldn't care
no-one ever said you can't be crazy
but unfortunately ppl do say you can't be in love
well, we are made to prove tem they are wrong
cause my love is so huge that no words can describe me
no eyes can see it
no heart can feel - other than yours....
I LOVE YOU MY ANGEL
YOU MADE ME AND MY LIFE BEAUTIFUL
YOU GAVE ME WINGS.....
I love you so much, I can hardly type






"Live today to the fullest and make it beautiful. So that it will be worth remembering"

Edited by Sysiyo on 06/23/04 06:54 AM (server time).



PHOENIX
(crash course raver)
01/29/02 06:31 PM
Re: An Ode To Love new [re: kellyjean]  

Love is our ultimate purpose, it is what we stay alive for.
It's the searching that drives us when we are not even aware.

KJ, it sounds to me like you can see and feel love more than most in this world, your writing, coming as it does straight from your heart with no boundaries, is bright with love.

Never stop loving, you are something divine



"Do not, I beg you, look for anything behind phenomena. They are themselves their own lesson."
GOETHE

TheDeuce
(cracked actor)
01/30/02 01:15 AM
Damn.... new [re: kellyjean]  

I can hardly breathe after reading that...keep up the good work Kellyjean! Seems like Bandit's writing has inspired something in all of us.

Mother, gonna take your daughter out tonight
gonna show her my world, oh mother...


Tristan
(stardust savant)
01/30/02 01:43 AM
Re: Damn.... new [re: TheDeuce]  

In reply to:

Seems like Bandit's writing has inspired something in all of us.


I was just thinking the same thing.

Nice work, kellyjean. That was beautiful.

Love And Anger ~ KB

Bandit
(crash course raver)
01/30/02 03:59 AM
Re: An Ode To Love new [re: kellyjean]  

Wow Kel what can I say...that's one of the most beautiful things I've ever read. Thanks for sharing... And may I add that I know where you're coming from

Now I lay me down to sleep
I pray the funk will make me freak
If I should die before I waked
Allow me Lord to rock out naked

RHCP


kellyjean
(wild eyed peoploid)
01/30/02 08:21 AM
Attachment
NoNoNo!!! new [re: TheDeuce]  

It WASN"T inspired by Bandit!!!!!! NO way! actually... DOES SHE HAVE HER POEMS AT TW?? hmm..maybe i should check..
LOL
I was just talking to my future husband on the net asn this came straight from my heart!
actually there was a naughty part but i erased it
not to scare ppl away from me :) LOL
but thanks everyone for good replies!!!!
i wasn't sue if to post it or not :)
byebye everyone!
Dasha (there's a new pic of me attached YAY)
p.s. where am i coming from Bandit?


"Live today to the fullest and make it beautiful. So that it will be worth remembering"

twister
(stardust savant)
01/30/02 09:54 AM
Cyber-fucking chat transcripts new [re: kellyjean]  

A fourteen-year-old girl posting a transcript of a "cyber-sex" session she had. I think the artiste's forum has just hit an all-time low.

I hope that I can say the things I wish I'd said.

TheDeuce
(cracked actor)
01/30/02 06:04 PM
Re: Cyber-fucking chat transcripts new [re: twister]  

In reply to:

A fourteen-year-old girl posting a transcript of a "cyber-sex" session she had. I think the artiste's forum has just hit an all-time low.



On the contrary, twister...

Mother, gonna take your daughter out tonight
gonna show her my world, oh mother...


sondra
(crash course raver)
01/30/02 07:47 PM
Re: An Ode To Love new [re: kellyjean]  

Very nice, kj
It's refreshing to see more people out there who are capable of beautiful and intense feelings!

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away.

Laugh often, long and loud.
Laugh until you gasp for breath.
Laugh.


twister
(stardust savant)
01/31/02 12:17 PM
Well? new [re: TheDeuce]  

In reply to:

On the contrary, twister...


Did you forget to post the argument to follow this? Or did you think the fact you got your rocks off to a fourteen-year-old's lurid masturbatory conversation spoke loudly enough?

I hope that I can say the things I wish I'd said.

TheDeuce
(stardust savant)
01/31/02 01:44 PM
Re: Well? new [re: twister]  

I didn't have an arguement at all. I was merely opening the door for you once more. I think it's great that a 14 year old has the freedom to express herself somewhere.

Mother, gonna take your daughter out tonight
gonna show her my world, oh mother...


LittleWonder17
(electric tomato)
01/31/02 05:45 PM
Re: An Ode To Love new [re: kellyjean]  

I'm sorry I have to agree with twister here. This isn't right. People should not be supporting a 14 year old's lust with a 28 year old. Kellyjean I must say that most of your poetry is beautiful and you've put alot of work into it, but just stop and think about what you've just posted. I'm a teenager too, I know how it feels to be young, I know what its like to be attracted to older men, but thats something almost every young girl gets. But you need to realize its a phase. You need to experience with people around your own age, it's a normal part of growing up, do you not want to be able to have different boyfriends, and learn how love works, and experience with people that actually need experience too. You're being niave. As for the man you are in love with, I'm sorry to say this, but what you're doing isn't right, you're robbing her of a normal adolesence, and building her up with false pretenses of what love is like. She is 14 and you are 28, that is double age difference. I advise you both to take a serious look at what you're doing, and think about.

I'm not trying to judge the kind of people you are, or trying to tell you what to do, but this is a message board, keep it in reality kids.

My friendship.. you know you want it

Sylvanelf
(cracked actor)
01/31/02 06:11 PM
I gotta tell u guys, this is one fucked up thread new [re: kellyjean]  

Kellyjean, your future "husband" (hahaha) is 28 years old and you're 14? He's going to rape you. I am not fucking kidding either. Don't meet him in real life, and don't let him know where you live if you have any sense whatsoever.

As for the transcript, I started laughing halfway through it and stopped reading it. Twister and Littlewonder17 both had great comments, but this one by Phoenix....

In reply to:

Love is our ultimate purpose, it is what we stay alive for.


Whatever makes you feel better

yume no naka de hirogaru sekai wa the last secret garden -Gackt

PHOENIX
(crash course raver)
01/31/02 08:33 PM
Re: I gotta tell u guys, this is one fucked up thr new [re: Sylvanelf]  

Arguing here would be fairly fruitless. For the simple fact that I would have exactly the same reaction to you guys (still today even), if I saw the same thing happening. And nothing the guy could say would make me change my opinion.

It stands to reason though, for anyone who knows me in real life, that I am hardly a sex maniac or rapist. All of my friends and my ex-girlfriend, my parents, her mum (who I know) and sister ect, support me fully in what I am doing.

"Do not, I beg you, look for anything behind phenomena. They are themselves their own lesson."
GOETHE

Ruskie
(crash course raver)
01/31/02 09:18 PM
Re: I gotta tell u guys, this is one fucked up thr new [re: PHOENIX]  

In reply to:

All of my friends and my ex-girlfriend, my parents, her mum (who I know) and sister ect, support me fully in what I am doing.


Of course, because i know if i broke up with my girlfriend so i could be have cyber-sex and eventually wed a 14 year-old Ukrainian girl who i met on the internet, and is nearly half my age, my family and friends would support it all the way.

Few people know that I'm fueled creatively by my massive hatred of immigrants.

sky_kisser
(kook)
01/31/02 10:48 PM
shouldn't she be chatting about Josh Hartnett or something? new [re: Sylvanelf]  

I on the verge of telling Sylvanelf to knock off the swearing at a fourteen year old kid ((because I adore putting my nose in where it doesn't belong... )) and then I realised that the fourteen year old kid's posting of cyber sex ((or poetry, if that is how you justify reading it)) is what sparked this thread, and I laughed my head off.

Am I completely misreading this or is phoenix is the 28 year old seducing little kellyjean?

it's been fun destroying our bodies, it's been great just being together...

PHOENIX
(crash course raver)
01/31/02 10:58 PM
Re: I gotta tell u guys, this is one fucked up thr new [re: Ruskie]  

You want to ask them? If you are that concerned you are welcome to ask for an exchange of numbers through PMs and then actually talk to these people.

Then if you like you can talk to kj's parents also.

Then what? I guess you'll just have to wait, if you have the patience, and see for yourself.

Admittedly I must be the strangest sexual predator on the face of the Earth who lets his family, friends, and the family and friends of the one he is intending to rape know all about what he is up to. But that's me all over, so sneaky I just blow peoples minds.

"Do not, I beg you, look for anything behind phenomena. They are themselves their own lesson."
GOETHE

Paris
(kook)
01/31/02 11:30 PM
Re: An Ode To Love new [re: kellyjean]  

How scandalous! I love it...

"I said to Hank Williams: how lonely does it get? Hank Williams hasn't answered yet. But I hear him coughing all night long, a hundred floors above me in the Tower of Song."-Leonard Cohen

Sylvanelf
(cracked actor)
02/01/02 00:14 AM
Re: I gotta tell u guys, this is one fucked up thr new [re: PHOENIX]  

In reply to:

Admittedly I must be the strangest sexual predator on the face of the Earth who lets his family, friends, and the family and friends of the one he is intending to rape know all about what he is up to. But that's me all over, so sneaky I just blow peoples minds.


That's the evil genius of it, you see.

At the start of this thread, I had no idea it was YOU and KJ. I wouldn't think of the person behind Phoenix raping someone, but it's not like I know you well. Even if you're not going to rape her, this can't end well.

yume no naka de hirogaru sekai wa the last secret garden -Gackt

twister
(stardust savant)
02/01/02 07:13 AM
He Without Sin (Casting Stones) new [re: PHOENIX]  

PHOENIX. I don't know if you remember being fourteen-years old. After all, it was a long time ago. But as someone who hasn't even turned eighteen himself yet, I can point out to you that at fourteen years old someone is still a child. And no offence to kellyjean, but by even making the post at the top of this thread she isn't even showing herself to be a particularly mature fourteen-year-old. As such, it is wrong to get sexual gratification from someone so young, even if at the moment it hasn't got past the "cyber" stage. Hell, PHOENIX, you're over a decade older than I am, and to me the thought of being with someone as young as fourteen is physically repulsive because I know we're both at radically different levels of maturing as human beings.

PHOENIX, being sexually attracted (to the level of actually intending to act on it, no less) to a fourteen-year-old really is perverted.

I hope that I can say the things I wish I'd said.

Bandit
(crash course raver)
02/01/02 11:04 PM
Re: He Without Sin (Casting Stones) new [re: twister]  

My daughter's only a little younger than KJ....I can see where you're coming from about the age difference. Hell I wouldn't want my girl to be seeing a 28 yr old either. BUT...

I've talked to both Phoenix and KJ. They're really nice people and both of them have their heads screwed on the right way. If they want to have a long distance relationship (and it is long distance!) who is anyone to say they can't? I advise you all to go back and read the last part of KJ's post...who says you have to be a certain age to experience love? And if she can't express that love here in poetry on this board then it's very sad.

Both his family and hers have no problem with it - why should you?

Now I lay me down to sleep
I pray the funk will make me freak
If I should die before I waked
Allow me Lord to rock out naked

RHCP


ziggywombat
(crash course raver)
02/01/02 11:31 PM
yet another nose in... new [re: PHOENIX]  

this is probably going to come out wrong, but please don't take offence, i'm not attacking, just curious. here goes...

i guess you must be aware of how this looks from the outside, yet you say family, friends, exes, whatever all support this. i'm curious as to what insight they have that we don't into the situation that makes it acceptable? i ask as i'm curious, i'm aware it's not of my buisness.

on the other hand, no, it is my buisness now that you've brought it to an open forum, it wouldn't be my buisness were you keeping it to yourselves. (not that i'm saying that's the correct way, in fact it would probably be more worrying if it were a big secret, i give full credit there... though i still question the taste in posting such intimate chats, but that's prudish me.)

ready

Kirk
(acolyte)
02/02/02 06:45 AM
subject new [re: ziggywombat]  

It's a shame that this discussion had to take place in the artiste thread, below an apparent piece of art. I don't really consider chat transcripts as art, but this is an art forum. I'm not going to start a new thread, though.

Once you are in love it's too late. If there was any 'predator' type accusations to made against PHOENIX, they are rooted in the very first messages exchanged. Innocence is naturally corrupted, as numerous people I have known on TW can attest to.

Internet love is largely based in fantasy. We know a small selection of details about the other party, and like those details very much. Yet all the gaps, which are inevitable without the physical communication that real life relationships rely on, are filled in to fit our desires. Our imagination runs riot, and a sweet person whom we know something about transforms into a perfect partner, or soulmate. This has happened to me mutliple times in the past, but internet beings are just as flawed as real life entities.

There is a serious level of scepticism that must be enforced if you are to maintain realistic expectations. Just as we learn from real life relationships, we also learn from internet relationships. One is inevitably better than the last, and I am actually getting quite good at them, but if this is your respective first internet 'love', beware. I wish you all the luck in the world, yet just as 12 year olds holding hands and imaging they will be married just as soon as they are old enough, things rarely work out as expected until we learn the rules those things follow.

there's nine people down here, and you can ask seven of them, and if you can get that price from one of them, I'll let you ask the other two.

twister
(stardust savant)
02/02/02 10:22 AM
So what you gonna do for the encore, yeah? new [re: Bandit]  

In reply to:

Both his family and hers have no problem with it - why should you?


Because I think it's sick, disgusting and perverted. The fact that the family and friends of both parties fail to see that is no concern of mine.

Of course, perhaps they have information that we do not. Perhaps they don't actually plan on meeting for some five years, for instance, but even then - seeing this chat transcript alone, and knowing it transpired between someone a decade more mature than myself, and someone else four years less so (with the parts deemed too obscene edited out, I might add), it's sickening.

I hope that I can say the things I wish I'd said.

elvenlass
(crash course raver)
02/02/02 05:36 PM
Re: An Ode To Love new [re: kellyjean]  

I liked the "poetry" part of this, but the reality behind it is what is bothering me. The fact that when he was 17, she was 3 years old. That is what's bugging me, the age difference. But other than that...thanks for sharing?



Tristan
(stardust savant)
02/03/02 12:34 PM
Re: An Ode To Love new [re: elvenlass]  

In reply to:

The fact that when he was 17, she was 3 years old.


I fail to see any logic in that statement at all.

In order to emphasize the light, you have to put the focus on the shadow. - ds

elvenlass
(crash course raver)
02/03/02 01:32 PM
Re: An Ode To Love new [re: Tristan]  

Usually, at 17, people would be dating, partying, and going out. When he was doing that, she didn't even know what a date was. It was just an exaggerated statement to show how much older he is than her. That's all!



Halloween Jill
(electric tomato)
02/03/02 06:10 PM
Re: So what you gonna do for the encore, yeah? new [re: twister]  

It is sickening.

I'm embarassed for them.

Ziggy Groupies Suck


JonnyManic
(kook)
02/03/02 06:40 PM
Do you want to touch me there? Where? There? Yeah! new [re: Halloween Jill]  

A) That wasn't poetry, that was excruciating.
B) A fourteen year old could, understandably, be attracted to an older guy. She is immature, and could have an idealised view of the guy. A 28 year old could understandably be attracted to a 14 year old girl. She is pretty, she looks older. For him to act on it would probably be illegal (not too sure about the consent age in your countries), and certainly in very bad taste. For fucks sake, she is 14!!!
C) The people on here saying how great this is, wake up you sad people. This is bad bad bad.
D) This is all a wind up right?

You seem to have confused your Glam rockers, I'm sure there are lots of Gary Glitter boards that would love this offal posted on it.

If you stand up like a nail then you will be knocked down

kellyjean
(wild eyed peoploid)
02/09/02 11:54 AM
*LMAO*! new [re: JonnyManic]  

Thanks for replies everyone
I didn't think the thread would be so long
probably the longest thread of mine in the Artiste Forum
have fun,
Dasha

"Live today to the fullest and make it beautiful. So that it will be worth remembering"

twister
(acolyte)
09/15/02 11:20 AM
Please, tell me you realised what a mistake it was new [re: kellyjean]  

So are you two kids still together?

I could be a genius if I just put my mind to it.

kellyjean
(kook)
09/15/02 02:34 PM
Re: Please, tell me you realised what a mistake it was new [re: twister]  

I'm sorry ,Twister, that I can't satisfide your curiosity, but I'm not sharing my private life with TW anymore

"If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad"

Remade/Remodeled
(cracked actor)
09/15/02 05:54 PM
Let us get what WE want, this time new [re: kellyjean]  

In reply to:

but I'm not sharing my private life with TW anymore


Why not?

You share every bloody other thought that goes through your head


That's no lady, that's my wife

twister
(acolyte)
09/16/02 07:13 AM
Sick, sick and wrong. new [re: PHOENIX]  

What about you, PHOENIX? Any interest in denouncing the whole affair as one big disgusting mistake to redeem yourself and put those of us that get sick to our stomachs in worry that you may not have done out of our misery?

I could be a genius if I just put my mind to it.

ped_xing
(grinning soul)
09/17/02 06:31 PM
Re: Sick, sick and wrong. new [re: twister]  

Wow! You mean that girl who starts all those bazillions of threads about nothing in the coffee place is only 13!? And she's having an affair with the very same Phoenix of the retooled tool fame!? Who is old!? That is really something! Any other affairs going on around here?

The driver of a vehicle making a right turn on red must yield the right-of-way to all pedestrians crossing the intersecting roadway or proceeding as directed by the signal.

Sylvanelf
(stardust savant)
09/18/02 05:00 PM
Silliness. new [re: ped_xing]  

An affair? Oh please. They never even met eachother in real life did they? It's just kids (and sometimes irresponsible horny adults) being kids. In other words, I mean being stupid.

Twister, I must commend you on your evilness for bringing this thread back up.

In reply to:

Any other affairs going on around here?


I'm having an affair with Not Sylvanelf.


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JonnyManic
(stardust savant)
11/11/03 09:43 PM
not this too! new [re: kellyjean]  

And we can't possibly lose this to the Archives...

It were Proper Bo', I tell thee!

LeahRose
(absolute beginner )
11/12/03 07:14 PM
Re: Well? new [re: twister]  

good call, Twister...

******
"a bee bit my bottom, now my bottom's big"

strangeDivine
(stardust savant)
11/12/03 07:41 PM
TW Paedophile Round-Up new [re: TheDeuce]  

In reply to:

Seems like Bandit's writing has inspired something in all of us.


Yes. Syphilis.

Edit: Well, I guess I will ruin the comic simplicity of my original statement. Wasn't it funny?

This may sound strange, but it's not really the sexual element of this that bothers me. Despite the general consensus of our society, I think that most 14 year olds are capable of making decisions about their bodies. Obviously with adulthood comes a better grasp on the dynamics of human relationships. And older people are generally better equipped (not always) to deal with relationships. A 14 year old is not sailing utterly blindly! But this whole "love" thing that's being discussed is what is troubling. As Sedna said, people that age are very easily deludeded by an older person and this sounds like the perfect set-up for eventual emotional devastation. If they were just like, "I'm willing to try having a friendship and if something more comes of it, then that's okay by me." That would be more acceptable in my mind.

And as Sedna said, in such situations, the whole concept of "consent" becomes very abstract and is on shaky ground because of pressure and percieved pressures.

But really now. Who else here thinks that KellyJean is in fact an undercover cop?




So I carried the boat of incense then at Clongowes. I am another now and yet the same.

Starlite
(cracked actor)
11/13/03 01:15 AM
Re: TW Paedophile Round-Up new [re: strangeDivine]  

In reply to:

This may sound strange, but it's not really the sexual element of this that bothers me. Despite the general consensus of our society, I think that most 14 year olds are capable of making decisions about their bodies. Obviously with adulthood comes a better grasp on the dynamics of human relationships. And older people are generally better equipped (not always) to deal with relationships. A 14 year old is not sailing utterly blindly! But this whole "love" thing that's being discussed is what is troubling. As Sedna said, people that age are very easily deludeded by an older person and this sounds like the perfect set-up for eventual emotional devastation. If they were just like, "I'm willing to try having a friendship and if something more comes of it, then that's okay by me." That would be more acceptable in my mind.


No! Most people are NOT emotionally mature at 14. They think they are, but hoo boy, in a few years' time, when they think back on their little teenage exploits... yeah.

Fooling around is all well and good with other kids that age, but when someone's that much older, it's easy for that party to take unfair advantage of the younger partner. The younger partner might think they're ready and consenting, but that's the truly dangerous part. At 21 or so, they'd probably regret it.

Plus a relationship at that stage with someone significantly older is most likely to be damaging to the psyche, period. As LittleWonder said, people need to find out what love is with other people who are just finding it out. There are developemental stages to go through. Otherwise, you're gonna screw yourself up.

But then again, my pretty, I don't think even you are fully emotionally mature yet, at your ripe 17 years of age. (This isn't an insult, lovely, I'm just saying it objectively. I mean heck, I'm not sure if I am, either.)

And kellyjean, if you are still around Artiste's, I really would be curious to know how it all turned out... Not badly, I hope.

Next time somebody calls you a name, say, "That's not what your dad says," or simply, "I had sex with your dad." At first it might seem weird, and your friends may be horrified, but they'll grow to see the humor in it.
--Glitterbot


strangeDivine
(stardust savant)
11/13/03 05:37 PM
An angry face? new [re: Starlite]  

In reply to:

But then again, my pretty, I don't think even you are fully emotionally mature yet


Ugggh. What do you think? You've seen my extensive list of hang-ups. You know the score. But then again, I think what ever stage you are at is appropriate for you at that point. So the question has to be are you emotionally mature in relation to something. So I guess in that context, you're right about KellyJean.

But I still think that she would be more damaged by a serious relationship gone awry than by some type of singular sexual encounter. This is hard to explain. But think of it this way. Having some bizarre sexual encounter and regretting it years later would not be as devastating to her as avoiding the other opportunities in her life for a few years, in order to be with him. All the while, her emotions growing stronger until the relationship actually does come to fruition and ends badly, because their percieved compatibility was exaggerated because of the very nature of internet communication.

In other words, I think the emotional aspect would have a stronger impact on an impressionable young person than would a non-seriously-taken physical act. We all know that most people have a strong emotional reaction to sex, though. But at the same time, emotions become stronger over time. And if she wasn't led to expect anything all the while, the damage would be less. None of this really relates to her, though, because it seems that she feels/felt that she is/was truly in love. I'm not sure what my original point was since this isn't relavent to the discussion.

So I carried the boat of incense then at Clongowes. I am another now and yet the same.

Starlite
(cracked actor)
11/13/03 09:27 PM
Re: An angry face? new [re: strangeDivine]  

In reply to:

Ugggh. What do you think?


Don't take it badly, darling! Like I said, saying that I don't think you are emotionally mature is not an insult the way I meant it. It's just simply what it is. I don't think you are. And at 17, I don't think a lot of people are.

And as I said, I don't think I am.

And by saying that you're not emotionally mature, I'm not saying you're particularly emotionally immature, at least not in relation to your peers. I'm just saying you still have a bit to go, as you're supposed to, because you're a teenager. That's just how it works. And eventually, people grow up, get the necessary experience, and mature, and well... that's that.

Perhaps I should have said "emotionally inexperienced" instead, since that's what it basically depends on.

In reply to:

But I still think that she would be more damaged by a serious relationship gone awry than by some type of singular sexual encounter.


Yes, I did say "relationship," didn't I?

The angry face wasn't to imply that I was either mad or upset, pretty. :) I was just using it to highlight that I really disagree that 99.9% of 14 year olds are at all capable of being in an adult relationship. They can be in love, they can be sexually active, but they're still kids.

Next time somebody calls you a name, say, "That's not what your dad says," or simply, "I had sex with your dad." At first it might seem weird, and your friends may be horrified, but they'll grow to see the humor in it.
--Glitterbot


strangeDivine
(stardust savant)
11/13/03 11:25 PM
Re: An angry face? new [re: Starlite]  

In reply to:

And by saying that you're not emotionally mature, I'm not saying you're particularly emotionally immature, at least not in relation to your peers.


I was agreeing with you! That's why I've said "you've seen my list of hang-ups.." I suppose I'm mature in some sort of ironic, Warholian way. But when it comes to interpersonal relationships, you know that there is a lot to be desired in that department.

So I carried the boat of incense then at Clongowes. I am another now and yet the same.

RabbitFighter
(stardust savant)
11/15/03 05:00 PM
Re: TW Paedophile Round-Up new [re: Starlite]  

In reply to:

I really would be curious to know how it all turned out...


My guess is that PHOENIX got locked up and he´s giving head to some guy called Bubba as i´m writing this.
Really, molesting children is just wrong and a horrible thing to do, unless you´re RabbitFighter.

You know I hate to ask but, are `friends’ electric?
Mine’s broke down and now I’ve no one to love



Monkeyboy
(band intro)
09/23/06 08:30 PM
An ode to the vomit in the back of my throat new [re: kellyjean]  

Hey! Remember this?!

Awesome...

"...most of us know Monkeyboy is in fact frightfully intelligent. Try to argue with Monkeyboy and you'll lose no matter what." - K

WildWind
(acolyte)
11/01/13 05:00 PM
Re: An ode to the vomit in the back of my throat new [re: Monkeyboy]  

Bumped in light of conversation on Facebook.

"What's Tonga?" - Christopher Meloni

twister
(acolyte)
11/05/13 01:19 PM
Woah! new [re: WildWind]  

This is trippy.

I could be a genius if I just put my mind to it.

Remade/Remodeled
(acolyte)
02/10/14 06:57 AM
Re: Woah! new [re: twister]  

Holy shit this went down 12 years ago... look at us now!

C'est magnifique, mais ce n'est pas la guerre


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