I have found a wonderful site that reveals all the secrets of a blessed and happy marriage. Having always the welfare of TWers in my bosom, I knew I had to share its glorious message with you.
Ladies, are you suffering any type of marital stress? Do you and your better half ever get into any arguments? Do you wonder how you can make your marriage better? Well, wonder no more!
It's as easy as recognizing what type of man you're with, and behaving accordingly.
1. The Command Man:
Command Men are born leaders. They are known for expecting their wives to wait on them hand and foot. A Command Man does not want his wife involved in any project that prevents her from serving him. If you are blessed to be married to a strong, forceful, bossy man, as I am, then it is very important for you learn how to make an appeal without challenging his authority. If a wife learns early to enjoy the benefits of taking the second seat, and if she does not take offense to his headstrong aggressiveness, she will be the one sitting at his right side being adored, because this kind of man will totally adore his woman and exalt her.
If you are married to a king, honor and reverence is something you must give him on a daily basis if you want him to be a benevolent, honest, strong, and fulfilled man of God. He has the potential to become an amazing leader. Never shame him, and do not belittle him or ignore his accomplishments. Make it your life’s goal to become his queen.
2. The Visionary Man
Visionaries are often gifted men or inventors. They are street preachers, political activists, organizers and instigators of any front-line social issue. The Visionary is consumed with a need to communicate with his words, music, writing, voice, art, or actions. He is the “voice crying out in the wilderness” striving to change the way humanity is behaving or thinking.
The wife of Mr.Visionary should be just a little bit reckless and blind in one eye if she is going to enjoy the ride. Learn how to be flexible, and learn how to always be loyal to your man. You will be amazed at how much happier you will be and how much fun life can be if you learn to just go with the flow — his flow. And once you get it into your head that your husband does not have to be “right” for you to follow him, you will FINALLY be able to say “bye bye” to your overwrought parents, even when they are screaming that you are married to a crazy man. People looking on will marvel that you are able to love and appreciate your husband, but you will know better because you will see his greatness.
3. The Steady Man:
Typically, Steady Men do not become as well known as Command or Visionary Men. They are not odd or stand-out men. They are not loud. They are neither irritating nor particularly magnificent. Women and men alike envy and desire a Command Man. People are often drawn and compelled by the Visionary. But the Steady Man is taken for granted.
If this describes your man, you need to learn how to stand still and listen; then let God move your husband in his own good time. Ask God for wisdom and patience. Seek to always have a gentle spirit. Let him be the one God made him to be: a still, quiet, thoughtful presence — for you!
Also remember this pearl of wisdom:
"It is far better that the job be done poorly by your husband than to be done well by you."
And with testimonies like this, how can you fail to act?