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For me it was the implied suffering.
It's possible I'm not feeding her properly. This is my first time as well as hers so it's a learning experience all round.
Thing is I spent most of the wife budget I'd allocated on collars, chains and other jewellery, so I might be skimping a bit in the food department. But with her being from eastern Europe and all, and this being the United States, I figured our dog food would be plenty good enough for her. Probably a lot better than gourmet food back in the old country.
The desire of the man is for the woman. But the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man.