I tend to think that common sense is a good guideline but then again common sense is hard to define as well. Still you have to admit, Monkey, that you posted something "shocking" to make your point in that other thread. And you did. If you hadn't been sure that your pic links to something "explicit" you wouldn't have linked it. So you knew what you were doing and shouldn't be crying for advise.

Defending it as being not explicit would have been fine by me, and that's why I didn't even think about deleting the post and sent you a pm instead. I was open to hearing your answer to my pm and didn't intend to make a big deal out of it. Why you did publicise my pm I don't know, and I do not see the bigger picture at all. And neither do you create a bigger picture by claiming that I did say anything in an official manner. I did send you a pm with a simple and informal text, a question actually. And why is it so often those who hit the hardest that start complaining when they feel a little pushed?

And I want to believe
In the madness that calls 'now'