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I was insulted/hurt here once by someone referring to my family

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Of course that's pretty low. But still, I think my point with not taking things too personally is that most people here don't really know you, so they really can only base their insults on something you've written. And that's why they really can't hit the point, can they? And even less these people know about your family. I don't know if this made any sense...

But if you're gonna dine with them cannibals, sooner or later, darling, you're gonna get eaten