I think anisette just wants to see monkeyboy pissed. It is her goal of the day. Lovely little buttonpusher.
On topic, I use the word fag all of the time. It is all a matter of context and how it is used. If someone takes offense from first glance on written form, then I think that person needs to take the weight of that word from their mind. No one should be so easy to be slighted. Deep down i think everyone hates a little of everyone anyway, so let's be upfront about it and disregard the pretense.