Hey WW, I, too, am lactose intolerant and have found two real cheeses w/o lactose for good eats. One is by Finlandia, swiss w/o lactose and low fat, but good... since it is still dairy based. Trader Joe's carries it.
The second is harder to come by, but worth is it for pizza, lazagna and other mozzerella needs. That would be buffalo mozzerella, soft like the cow kind, but no lactose. Yee-haw!
Otherwise, I do what you do when I need a different dairy fix... load up on the Lactaid.
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